Playing Second Fiddle

By Nicky King

Second fiddle means “one that plays a supporting or subservient role”. Who in their right mind would choose this? Playing second fiddle doesn’t sound glamorous or important. It doesn’t draw attention, solicit praise or end with a standing ovation. It is really not something that most of us strive to be.  We are encouraged to reach for gold, not silver or bronze. We are motivated to “Be All That You Can Be”.  So where does the role of second fiddle fit into this worldview?       

In most cases, second fiddle is not a chosen role, but it is an important and needed one. The best analogy to support this claim is an orchestra.  When asked what the most difficult instrument in the orchestra is, Leonard Bernstein responded: “The second fiddle. I can get plenty of first violinists, but to find someone who can play the second fiddle with enthusiasm – that's a problem; and if we have no second fiddle, we have no harmony."  A team, much like an orchestra, needs people with varying backgrounds, knowledge, and strengths to ensure effectiveness.   

Have you ever known people that have assumed the role of second fiddle? In my experience, these people don’t do anything with indifference, but instead with all their heart.  

1.    They do not seek the applause or approval of man.     

2.    They pursue integrity. 

3.    They are content with circumstances. 

4.    They rejoice with others. 

5.    They bear each other’s burdens. 

6.    They encourage others.  

7.    They are committed to work hard.     

8.    They focus on others.   

9.    They are faithful in doing what is right. 

Though not often chosen, playing second fiddle is an honorable position and provides a firm foundation that continues to be strengthened over time. I applaud the “second fiddles” and recognize that what they do so easily cannot be mastered by the faint of heart. It can only be done through God’s grace as they are focused on the goal, which is Christlikeness.   

In honor of Pastor Steve, Jacqui, Amy, Tracy and Joy.  Thank you for being an example of how to live for the honor and glory of Christ, and for faithfully serving others with little to no fanfare.  You have made a lasting impact in countless lives, including mine. May you one day hear, “Well done, good and faithful servant; thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy Lord; (Matthew 25:23).